Sanctuary Ridge

Sanctuary Ridge

Women’s Therapy

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Thoughtful therapy for women.

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Isabel Spoehr, LCSW, founder of Sanctuary Ridge Therapy

Welcome to Sanctuary Ridge, a practice for women, rooted in the belief that therapy is a deeply human process.

I work with women who feel uncertain about navigating life’s unknowns, who experience a loss of identity, or who want to change habits that keep them stuck in unhealthy thoughts, emotions, or behaviors. These patterns often surface as avoidance, difficulty with emotional regulation, strain in relationships, people pleasing, or perfectionism.

This includes women in the middle of significant life shifts, such as motherhood, career changes, or evolving relationship dynamics, who feel spread too thin and need more comprehensive support. With over a decade of experience in acute clinical settings, a trauma-informed approach grounds this work. Our space is one of safety, attuned to how trauma shapes a person’s emotional, psychological, and physical wellbeing.

My role is to ask the questions that help you identify, without judgment, what serves you, what you are ready to release, and which tools will help you be effective. I would love to hear your story, answer any questions you have and see if we would be a strong fit for doing this work together.

Sessions

How we work together

We begin with an initial consultation and build a treatment framework shaped around your needs and goals.

Where everything starts

Initial consultation

The purpose of the initial consultation is to explore what brings you in, what you have tried in the past, and what feeling better looks like for you. It also gives us a chance to see what working together looks like and whether I am the right person to support change for you.

Individual, 90 minutes

Group, 60 minutes

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Individual therapy

One-on-one

Sessions are 50 minutes, in-person or virtual. We spend our early time together getting a clear picture of where you are feeling stuck and what you are hoping to move toward.

Our work is structured and purposeful. At times this can include between-session practice, like trying out a DBT skill we have been working on. The balance is always tailored to you.


Also available

Short-term intensives

Sometimes the most effective work is focused. Short-term intensives are built around a single concern or focal point, with a structure that flexes to fit your pace and goals. Common focal points include:

Preparation for Events
Unexpected Life Transitions
Problematic Habits & Patterns
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Group therapy

Weekly groups

After a decade of facilitating women’s groups, I have seen the community that forms around the work create a rare balance of support and accountability and become one of the strongest motivators for change.

Weekly group

DBT Skills

Forming

A weekly skills-based group for women who have completed a full DBT program and want to continue practicing the work in a supportive community of other skill-users.

Meets weekly · Forming now · Up to 10 members

Weekly group

Rupture and Repair

Forming

For women navigating separation, divorce and the period of rebuilding that follows.

Meets weekly · Forming now · Up to 10 members

Weekly group

Trading Critical for Curious

Forming

For women navigating self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence, working through the internal pressures of perfectionism and self-criticism to build a grounded sense of who they are.

Meets weekly · Forming now · Up to 10 members

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Payment

Private pay

Many clients are able to use their out-of-network benefits to offset the cost of sessions. Sanctuary Ridge does not bill insurance directly, but we provide clients monthly superbills to support reimbursement. We recommend reaching out to your provider to understand your coverage before getting started.

Payment is due at the time of service.

Individual therapy

Consultation (90 min)

$375

Session (50 min)

$250

Group therapy

Consultation (60 min)

$250

Session (60 min)

$140

About

Isabel Spoehr, LCSW

Isabel Spoehr, LCSW

Credentials

Licensed Clinical Social Worker
New York #095973-01 · Connecticut #015296 · Virginia
Master of Social Work · Virginia Commonwealth University
Jepson School of Leadership · University of Richmond

Background

For the last decade, I have worked with women across a wide range of settings, including hospitals, safe haven shelters, schools and individual treatment. Currently, I serve as the Women’s Group Clinician for Silver Hill Hospital’s Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP), one of the country’s leading psychiatric treatment resources.

I came to this work after years in senior corporate positions, a path that informs how I understand the relationship between performance, identity, and wellbeing.

Style of work

Each client’s work begins with finding the balance: exploring your history to understand the “why,” holding curiosity about where you feel stuck, and incorporating the skills and goals needed to change your relationship to it.

The practice is grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Together, we will draw on the skills and structure of DBT alongside the rethinking and reframing tools of ACT, adapting the approach to what you need.

My style of work is gentle and exploratory, while also direct. Sessions are collaborative from the start, working within a structure that also leaves room for curiosity and exploration.

Who I treat

I work with women who feel uncertain about navigating life’s unknowns, who experience a loss of identity, or who want to change habits that keep them stuck in unhealthy thoughts, emotions, or behaviors. These patterns often surface as avoidance, difficulty with emotional regulation, strain in relationships, people pleasing, or perfectionism.

This includes women in the middle of significant life shifts, such as motherhood, career changes, or evolving relationship dynamics, who feel spread too thin and need more comprehensive support. With over a decade of experience in acute clinical settings, a trauma-informed approach grounds this work. Our space is one of safety, attuned to how trauma shapes a person’s emotional, psychological, and physical wellbeing.

Areas of expertise include:

Depression & Anxiety
High Performance Burnout
Perfectionism
Life Transitions
Relationship dynamics
Motherhood stressors
Self Exploration
Trauma

What guides the work

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT teaches concrete skills for managing emotions, tolerating discomfort and improving how we relate to others. It is structured, practical and grounded in the belief that change is always possible.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

The purpose of ACT is to help you accept the things you cannot control and shift your focus towards building a life more aligned with your values. In this work, we focus on learning how to hold difficult thoughts and emotions with a new lens.

Locations

Find us

Sanctuary Ridge Therapy

Isabel Spoehr, LCSW

+1 203-244-8424

[email protected]

www.sanctuaryridgetherapy.com

In-person

Wilton, CT

195 Danbury Road, Suite 260
Wilton, CT 06897

By appointment. Serving Fairfield County and Westchester County communities.

In-person

Katonah, NY

Location coming soon.

Telehealth

New York, Connecticut & Virginia

Secure sessions via a HIPAA-compliant platform, available across all three states.

Resources

Tools for the work

100 Grounding Techniques

A reference list of techniques for returning to the present moment.

Emotions Wheel

A tool for identifying and naming what you are feeling in the moment.

Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale

A brief, ten-item self-assessment of global self-worth.


On my shelf

The Body Keeps the Score

Dr. Bessel van der Kolk

It Didn't Start with You

Mark Wolynn

Emotions Revealed

Paul Ekman

Set Boundaries, Find Peace

Nedra Glover Tawwab

Unbroken Brain

Maia Szalavitz

The State of Affairs

Esther Perel

First, We Make the Beast Beautiful

Sarah Wilson

Self-Compassion

Kristin Neff

Mirror Work

Louise Hay

Welcome to the Jungle

Hilary Smith

The In-Between

Hadley Vlahos, RN

Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage

Belle Burden


Community support

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Call or text 988 · 24/7

Crisis Text Line

Text HOME to 741741 · 24/7

My Sisters' Place

1-800-298-7233 · Westchester DV services

Safe Horizon

1-800-621-4673 · DV, crime and abuse support

CoDA

coda.org · Co-dependency support

Al-Anon

al-anon.org · Families affected by alcohol

ACA

adultchildren.org · Adult children of dysfunction

AA

aa.org · Alcoholics Anonymous

DBSA

dbsalliance.org · Depression and bipolar support

SMART Recovery

smartrecovery.org · Science-based recovery

Ready when you are.

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